So im back - still trying to decide whether I can be a long term blogger or not... every time i feel like writing i dont have time or for some reason cant be online...
Anywayyy... the latest with me is that my maid issues continue... the latest being that the maid I am sharing with my ma in law supposedly stole from my purse... along with that are further complications that shes a key resource in the house at this point and shes shared with my ma in law so i cant fire her.... so its REALLY stressing me... i have SUCH bad experiences with all these maids! Each of them have their own set of issues - I have been threatened, harassed, driven absolutely batty by all of them and i am beginning to think i will be saner if i just start cleaning my rooms myself after a hard days work! But I am soooo lazyyy i think i just made a conscious decision to let the thief exist and be more careful about my things,... and the fact that i have not had a single good experience with a maid in like FOREVER. (yes i know thats crazy but then theres always this nagging doubt in my mind that what if im somehow wrong about her... even though all evidence points towards her...)
anyway dont want to think about that anymore...
Other than that am planning my sons 2nd birthday party.... my husband and his family are not really big on birthdays... no one in their household even remembers each others birthday etc so obviously no one makes a big deal of it... But my family is completely different... its a MAJOR deal in my family... anyway i also want to celebrate his birthday but it is kind of a turn off when half the family is so casual about it so half the excitement of planning goes away :( Anyway im trying to keep my spirit alive... i have a guest list of like 10 people and 8 children! Yes I dont know anyone with kids... very few people who i am that close to and somehow i dont feel like inviting long lost friends... at this point dealing with in law indifference towards this im thinking its good to keep it simple and comfortable... anyway next year my son will be in school so I am sure my guest list for the 3rd birthday will be considerably longer! Now im just trying to figure out what to plan for these 10 adults and 7 kids... should i do the whole jumping castle stuff or keep it simple with simple games etc... any ideas how to make such a small party fun and memorable for all?
Other than that work is okay.... lots happening there too but i have been quite distracted with all the personal stuff happening... i need to get things moving there fast too.
Thats the updates for now,,,
im going to try and be more regular from now... hopefully...
anyway dont want to think about that anymore...
Other than that am planning my sons 2nd birthday party.... my husband and his family are not really big on birthdays... no one in their household even remembers each others birthday etc so obviously no one makes a big deal of it... But my family is completely different... its a MAJOR deal in my family... anyway i also want to celebrate his birthday but it is kind of a turn off when half the family is so casual about it so half the excitement of planning goes away :( Anyway im trying to keep my spirit alive... i have a guest list of like 10 people and 8 children! Yes I dont know anyone with kids... very few people who i am that close to and somehow i dont feel like inviting long lost friends... at this point dealing with in law indifference towards this im thinking its good to keep it simple and comfortable... anyway next year my son will be in school so I am sure my guest list for the 3rd birthday will be considerably longer! Now im just trying to figure out what to plan for these 10 adults and 7 kids... should i do the whole jumping castle stuff or keep it simple with simple games etc... any ideas how to make such a small party fun and memorable for all?
Other than that work is okay.... lots happening there too but i have been quite distracted with all the personal stuff happening... i need to get things moving there fast too.
Thats the updates for now,,,
im going to try and be more regular from now... hopefully...

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